More than 90 percent of the communication we put out there is nonverbal. In other words, how a woman evaluates you is only 10 percent to do with what you say.
The rest is about your tone, your body language and your facial expressions.
It follows, therefore, that your secret weapon in approaching women is going to be your own attitude. What you want to do is exude an air of confidence and self-assurance. Though you don't want to come across as cocky, you do want her to know from the outset that you have every faith in the success of your approach.
Right now, at this moment, you aren't feeling that confidence.
Either you've been burned in the past attempting to approach a woman or you've never built up the nerve to even try. Whatever the case, you're certainly not feeling the tingle of potential: the telltale twist in your stomach that tells you that you're wondering about the possibilities of where this IS going to go, rather than the one that tells you you're bound to be shot down as soon as you open your mouth.
So how do you get that confidence? It's partly practices, in truth. Once you've tried out the techniques, we'll be covering in this book a few times, you'll have the proof of their success that you need to feel comfortable using them.
But it's not all about practice. It's also about adjusting your attitude to become the kind of guy who has a healthy confidence in who he is and what he has to offer to that woman standing over by the bar.
Changing your mindset doesn't just change how you perceive this potential encounter and your chances of snagging her number. It also affects how you stand, how you speak, how you hold yourself and so on.
It alters everything about the non verbal communication you're putting out there. After all, how you feel affects how you think, which affects how you act. Now, instead of seeing a terrified guy who has no idea what he's doing, she sees a man who is at ease with himself and will be fun and rewarding to talk to. Your attitude is the foundation that we'll be building everything else on top of. The stronger it is, the higher we can build the structure on top of it.
This book gives a comprehensive guide on the following: The guide to sexy flirtingFlirting without your wordsDiscover masculine traitsInterpret the body language of the woman of your dreamsThe vital strengths & skills and how to obtain them fastPutting it all togetherApproaching a girl in realYour attitude and behaviorKnowing the bad signs of body languageThe high-status walkKeeping your standards as high as your heelsHow to get past small talk and connect with him... AND MORE