From Him, Not Them: A Young Woman's Guide to Relying on God for Validation, Identity, and Guidance

If your superpower wish is to be invisible, you might want to reconsider.

Sure, it sounds convenient when you're trying to dodge chores, skip a test, or avoid drama. But being overlooked like you don't matter? That's not a superpower.

I know what it's like to crave being seen, valued, and loved. After a breakup left me feeling invisible, I chased worth through achievements, approval, and appearance-until it led me into an eating disorder.

I'm not the only one. For over twenty years, I've mentored young Christian women wrestling with the same questions: Where do I belong? Who am I, really? Is my identity based on what others think-or who God says I am?

We search for meaning, worth, and direction in grades, sports, relationships, or social media-things that can't meet our deepest needs. What if we've been looking in the wrong place all along?

From Him, Not Them: A Young Woman's Guide to Relying on God for Validation, Identity, and Guidance is a Christ-centered roadmap for young women navigating the pressure to prove themselves. You'll hear honest stories from girls who've struggled with insecurity, people-pleasing, anxiety, and self-doubt-and found a better way forward. You'll discover:

If you're looking for Christian guidance, help with identity in Christ, or a tool to encourage teen girls or college women in their faith, this book offers truth, grace, and spiritual direction.

You don't have to keep looking outside your relationship with God for what He longs to give you. True security comes from Him, not them.